The process of becoming aroused and having an orgasm is a two-part process: Just like learning to skip, it comes more easily to some people than others, it takes persistence to learn, and nobody ever really has to, but it sure is a fun game and everybody deserve a chance to try it. Even the clitoris needs a sexy context; without being turned on, stimulation of the clitoris will just feel weird or even painful. It takes time and practice to replace those self-critical thoughts with affection for your body, but the benefits extend far beyond having more and better orgasms. And everybody deserves a life so full of joy that they can do it when they want to. Email Created with Sketch.
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You are now subscribed Be on the lookout for a welcome email in your inbox! Someone presumably taught you how to coordinate your body, and soon you were doing it on your own, any time you felt like it. Orgasms are like childbirth: Emma Loewe 4 hours ago. It still surprises me how many women believe orgasm should just happen, more or less without effort, just through clitoral stimulation. That said … 5.